Taylor emailed me sixteen months before his wedding to Tim. Sixteen months. I don't have client folders that go back that far in my own reminders, and somehow they were always a step ahead of me anyway — more than once I'd get an email from them the day before I had a note set to reach out.


We started with an engagement session in New Haven, Connecticut, a city I actually lived in for a year, so wandering it again with a camera in hand felt like visiting an old friend. More importantly, it gave me a real look at how Tim and Taylor operate together, and their dog Roger turned out to be an excellent, if occasionally uncooperative, third wheel.


A year later I was back in Connecticut, this time in Milford, for the wedding itself. True to form: Taylor drifted through the day in full go-with-the-flow mode, while Tim ran the group photos like a four-star general with a shot list, keeping the frame in front of my camera constantly full. Once the ceremony wrapped, he rounded up the entire family for photos with the kind of natural authority most photographers spend years trying to build in a client. If the wedding-planning thing ever slows down, Tim's got a real future in professional people-herding. If you want to see Taylor & Tim's wedding slideshow, it's here.

 

Black and white photo of hands fastening a cufflink on a white dress shirt sleeve.
Two grooms walk down the aisle at an outdoor wedding ceremony with white chairs and a gazebo backdrop.
Two grooms in tuxedos pose together on green grass in front of a stone waterfall backdrop.
Wedding cake topper with Scrabble tiles spelling Mr & Mr adorned with purple roses on a blue background.
Two grooms in tuxedos sharing a fun cake cutting moment at their wedding reception.
Silhouette of a couple kissing in front of a white geometric building facade against a blue sky.
Two bridesmaids in green dresses taking a selfie together at a wedding celebration.
Two grooms share a kiss at their wedding ceremony outdoors, with guests in formal attire surrounding them.
Black and white photo of Playbill wedding programs for Tim and Taylor's wedding day in a white wicker basket.
Man in suit seated at wedding reception watching TV screen in elegant banquet hall.
Outdoor wedding ceremony with guests standing along a brick aisle leading to a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
Two grooms sharing a first kiss at their wedding ceremony outdoors near a white gazebo.
Two grooms in tuxedos exchange vows at an outdoor wedding ceremony beneath a white gazebo.
Purple flower petals scattered on brick pathway beside a flowing peach bridesmaid dress on green grass.
Two grooms in black tuxedos sharing a tender moment by a stone waterfall at their wedding.
Silhouette of two grooms holding hands under an elegant venue archway on their wedding day.
Couple walks hand-in-hand down a tree-lined path under dramatic cloudy skies in black and white.
Three-tier white wedding cake with purple and green ribbon, flanked by two purple rose and hydrangea bouquets.
Newlyweds hands with wedding rings resting near roses bouquet in sepia tone.
Close-up of two people holding hands with a pink rose corsage during a wedding ceremony.